Flash of Clarity / Flash of Mia
On watching Mia’s member site solo tease video, “Private Show”:
That’s what I want to do for a living. I want to do what she just did.
It’s this personal feel, this subtlety and sexiness, that I want to create. My tastes run darker and I’ve got some strong fetish fixations but…
That settles it. No longer will the stocking tease site lurk on the back burner of my Endless Projects list. I want to do it, and damn it, I’m going to. I’m also going to relaunch Full Frontal Politics, possibly as a vodcast instead of a blog, possibly in addition to. I’m also going to have a teasecast (either video or podcast, still debating).
How is this going to happen, you ask, when I’ve gone weeks without a single post here, and when the Sugasm’s been late going up due to all manner of random ills?
Well, two things: Sometimes a long string of random ills impeding your progress can be a sign that you’re progressing in the wrong direction. And sometimes the most seemingly random things can remind you of what you really need to be doing.
Tonight I saw that Angela St. Lawrence (a fellow PSO, a writer I read before getting into this game, and a cool chick to boot) over at ZenFetish had recommended one of my older stories, Smells Like Vanilla, to her readers (thanks!). I hadn’t posted any stories in a while - had been too busy playing catchup, and felt guilty writing for myself - and I’d been feeling the writing itch; one glance down at the OnlyTease pic of the day and I had an idea pouring into a blank WordPress post.
It was good, too. Upskirt, tease and denial, and drawn from some fun I had last fall semester.
My laptop ate it.
This was the last in a long series of stupid, senseless fucked up things getting in the way of my blogging for all the wrong reasons.
It’s not a popularity contest; it’s not about perceived importance or ego food. It’s about whether or not you’re writing something honest, and by honest I don’t mean truthful, at least in the sense of being factually accurate; I mean in the sense of being true to life. That’s what art is about, touching something real. Even if it’s pure escapism it touches on a real desire to be lifted out of this life for a little while and into something wilder/different/better.
(I’d gotten out of chasing my wet dreams to chase a) ego food in the form of a prestige startup blogging gig, b) the unglamorous phone whoring that pays the bills. a) cut into b), creating c) unpleasant letters and phone calls. c) pissed me off. d), miscellaneous crisis crap, caused me to have to fix c) abruptly; both d) and b) then cut into a).
Forgive the algebra; it was never my strong point. Shit got in the way. I’d get my shit together - or some of it - and more would fall apart. All the while I was ignoring the things I really had to be doing, like… oh… all the stuff I’ve had planned since before I started this blog.)
Mia makes some damn good erotica. It’s not throwaway porn. It’s not something you delete as soon as you “finish” with a vague sense of boredom or disgust. You save it for later, maybe just to look at because she’s pretty and it’s pretty porn, maybe for another go-round or three, maybe because it makes you think.
I’m not kidding you. It was so hot I had to show my boyfriend the video, and then (after composing himself) we sat and talked about just why it was so hot. We got abstract, we got technical, we got almost an hour’s worth of analysis out of a four-minute cam video tease.
The thing I loved about the video is a) the music kicks ass, b) she gets the subtleties. Pacing, teasing, putting on a show… She doesn’t just flash the hoo-hah and slap her boobs a couple of times. She gets it. Bonus points for wearing stockings like she means it.
There you have it. Mia is contagiously hot. Now at present I’m not getting any pimping fees for promoting her; her affiliate program hasn’t gone live yet [edit, 12/04/06: it's live; links updated accordingly]. I’m doing this purely because a) she’s awesome b) she remembered my birthday c) I must evangelize for good porn and erotic materials. Also, my man thinks she has captivating eyes.
Straight from the source: “Well, once you get past the whole ‘gorsh she’s got huge jugs’ or ‘how many dicks can she put in her ass?’ you can appreciate the (better things, in my opinion) eyes and expressions, and it really sells it when you can just feel that she is having a good time and enjoying it.”
If you want to see the solo video, the erotica galleries, the sexy audio… you have to join. I’m tipping you off now because Mia’s running a special: 5.95 for your first month. I’m pretty sure that ends this weekend though so if you’re a cheap bastard like me, get in there now for some primo amateur erotica from an infamous sex blogger. Then come back here and thank me.
July 14th, 2006 at 8:27 am
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July 14th, 2006 at 11:09 am
Sabrina! I’m glad to see that you’re back, no apology needed. I, too, have thoughts about my blog and where its going. Mia is hot for sure.
July 14th, 2006 at 12:54 pm
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July 15th, 2006 at 9:08 pm
Holy…….. fuck. I seriously had NO idea you posted something like this about me, but… wow. I can’t even form words right now. That was seriously the nicest thing anyone has EVER said about my stuff. And you hit it on the mark - I make my erotica (porn’s such a negative word nowadays) because I’m so tired of porn that looks nice but is the equivalent of an Atkins brownie: looks really good, but doesn’t fill you up. I want to make stuff that turns me on, and I think I’ve nailed it.
Moving on, I think you should definitely DEFINITELY definitely do what your heart says. Do what makes you happy. If you want to make erotica, definitely go for it. I work about twice as much as most people do at a “Real” job and I make at least 75% less than what they make……. right now. Hopefully that will change in the future (god yes please!!!!!), but right now at this very moment, I’m happier than I’ve ever been. I make photos and videos that turn me on, I’m not sacrificing my creative side to Corporate America, and I get to work from home butt-ass nekkid. It’s a good deal.
To wrap up this loooooong comment (sorry for totally going off on you like that), I’m not sure what direction you want to go in with your “Art” (for lack of a more specific word), but if it’s something I can help you with, I’ll definitely be there with bells and stockings on. Email me or comment on my site if you need someone to bounce ideas off of.
M
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